Showing posts with label helping another. Show all posts
Showing posts with label helping another. Show all posts

12.14.2011

occupational therapy: the what and the where



I get asked all the time, “what exactly is an occupational therapist?” and “what do occupational therapists do?”

My answer to you is that I really don’t know. I’ve only completed 2 semesters (out of 9) of OT school and I’m just now sort of kind of forming my own opinion and understanding of our profession and what it is that “we” do.

So, please remember that as a first year OT student, my answer will look much different than one written by a third year student or by an actual practicing OT.

My understanding of what we do is this…

We help people achieve whatever it is they want to achieve but can not do so independently because of a disability (both physical and cognitive), illness, difficulty, impairment, etc.

We exist so that YOU may live life more fully. We work to help you do whatever it is that you want to do but can no longer do it by yourself.

For example, if you were in a car accident and sustained a traumatic brain injury and your first and true love was gardening but now your brain will no longer allow you to put together the systematic sequential steps it takes in order to garden, we would come in and help you. We might help you with sequencing (cognitive) and we might help you with strengthening (to hold your garden utensils or whatever) and we might help you modify or adapt anything you can no longer do by yourself. Essentially, we will do whatever it takes so that you can participate in an activity that is vital to you or meaningful to you.

It could be anything... cooking, tennis, education, work, horse-back riding, yoga, music…whatever it is that you need to do and that you enjoy doing…we step in to be sort of a gentle guiding hand to see that you are able to do those things again.

We work in all kinds of settings... hospitals, clinics, nursing homes, private practice facilities, schools, psych units, addiction centers, hospice homes, you name it—we’re there.

As you can probably already tell, there really is no limit as to what we do or where we do it.

We do it all.

We are, by nature, very holistic. We address the whole person…not just the physical aspect (which is more of what Physical Therapists do). We address your emotional state, your cognitive state, your spiritual state, and your physical state.

So, that’s it in a nut-shell.

Why am I, personally, choosing Occupational Therapy as a profession?

Because it just fits with what I feel my purpose here on earth is—to help others.

To help others live life to the fullest; To help others find purpose and passion either for the first time, or again; To make sure people know that no matter what they go through, they are still vital and important; They are still worthy and they are still capable of finding “it” again…whatever that “it” is for them. That spark, that little flicker of joy, the missing puzzle piece..... the magic of life.

In what setting do I want to work?

I think that I would most like to work in the mental health field. 
I am also highly interested in getting an advanced degree/certificate in emotion-regulation and in working as a consultant. Both of those sound wonderful to me. But who knows. At the end of my 3 years, all of this may change. I may want to work in an elementary school. Ha! (probably not, although I do love children).

And of course, my long term goal is to have my PhD in Clinical psychology by the time I’m 40. Which means that I’ll work in the field for several years before going back to school.

I hope that this has been helpful.

If not, please ask away! I’ll do my best to answer with what limited knowledge and understanding I have.

All I know is that I chose the best field for me and I am VERY excited about my future career.

What an honor it is to do something that I love and feel passionate about. I wish more people would choose their careers based on passion and purpose rather than money.

The majority of people I know hate their jobs. This actually may have to do more with the person than their chosen profession…but it’s just an observation.

Do you like your job? Why? Why not?




10.25.2011

truth or dare



I have recently discovered two truths about myself. Well, when I say "discovered" I mean that i've finally decided to quit being in denial about them. 

The real truth is that i'm afraid of commitment and have intimacy issues. Regarding men and relationships, I mean.
I'm wishy-washy and a tease.
I sleep with men I don't like and don't care if I ever see them again.
Infact, I'm more comfortable with sleeping with someone (even a random stranger) than I am going on a date with them.





You think this is messed up, don't you?


Don't worry. I do too. 

I realize that this type of behavior is unhealthy. And I thought it would get better after I got sober. To some extent, it has. But I still have quite a ways to go. 


The thing is that i'm not exactly sure what to do about this. Of course I can continue to bug my therapist with plausible reasons why I'm like this....of I could start "dating". But that does not sound like fun to me. It sounds uncomfortable and scary and makes me want to run just thinking about it. 
I’m not saying that I have a solution for this truth about myself but it feels good to finally admit it. And put it out there. Sorry, men.


(and mom if you're reading this.....don't worry. I'm still a virgin)



The other truth isn't necessarily about myself...it's about the way our system works, so to speak. I have several friends who desperately need therapy but can't afford it. Why is this? Why does it cost so much to receive beneficial help? The people that need it the most can't afford it! And the people who can afford it, need it simply because they actually can afford it (money creates a whole lot of issues).

This isn't right.

Thank goodness my daddy is a kind and generous man. And when I call him crying about my friends who need help, he helps them. But not everyone is like my dad. And there are millions more out there who need help that have no one to help them.


I think my second truth is that I want to do something to help these people. After I finish Occupational Therapy school, I want to get my  PhD in clinical psychology.

I want to be a pro-bono therapist. 



I know that sounds silly. And I know I won't make any money. But I don't care. I can make money with my degree in OT and can give back to the community with free counseling. 



It's not even really that I personally think I can help people with my wisdom or understanding, but I can help them by simply paying them attention, providing a listening ear, and telling them that they aren't the only ones out there who are feeling what they are feeling. 


Sometimes that's all it takes. 


That's all it took for me at one time in my life.
And I still have to be reminded of it often. 


So there. Those are my two truths. They are very different from each other. 

But I never said I was perfect or anything like it. 

I'm a real girl with some very real issues. And I know I'm not alone. 

What are your truths that you’re scared to admit?
Denial is powerful. Don’t let it rob you of your life.

1.28.2011

Lucky Dog Rescue

It’s FRIDAY!
Time to do a Happy Dance!

But more importantly,
It’s time to give to those in need.

I want to introduce you to someone who is changing the world with not just her words but with the way she lives her life.

I’m working on a blog called “The Movers and the Shakers” and she was the first person I thought of when I thought about who inspired me, who makes me want to be a better person, and who is challenging me to live my truth!  She is leaving a legacy of love and hope and fearce determination with every step she takes.

*She* is none other than Ashley Owen Hill.

Ashley and I hail from the same home-town.

She has a passion.

Her passion is animals. Especially doggies;)

She rescues dogs. Everyday.

She selflessly takes them in her home.

And tries to find “Forever Homes” for them.

She has dedicated her life to saving these animals.

WOW!

What an amazing little lady!

She is as gorgeous on the inside as she is on the outside.

Please take time today to visit her site.

And donate either your time or money to her cause.

And if possible, please think about fostering or adopting one of her angels.

We need more people like Ashley in our lives.

People who remind us that we shouldn’t be asking what the world can do for us,
But what we can do for the world.

 This weekend, take a few minutes to get out of yourselves and help somebody in need.

The feeling and knowledge that you helped another living soul is priceless.

So,

Hop to it!

I expect to pass through this world but once. Any good, therefore, that I can do or any kindness I can show to any fellow creature, let me do it now. Let me not defer or neglect it for I shall not pass this way again


 Click HERE to follow Ashley's Blog! 

Click HERE to donate money!